The Great Attitude

Long ago there lived a man who carried water down a long path from the well to his house. He used two pots one on each shoulder…now the pot he carried on his left shoulder had a crack in it and when he got to the house he would empty the first pot that was brim full and the second pot which was only half full. This went on for months and one day the pot with a crack in it said to the carrier. “I am sorry for being a burden to you and I know that I am only doing half my job.” “Oh no” said the water carrier, “I must indeed thank you…for I knew of your flaw and if you look back along the path that I travel you will see on the left side bright flowers and on the other none. You see when I realized you had a crack I planted seeds along the left side of the path and every day you watered those seeds and today they are beautiful flower…Thank You”

Audience Manners

1. Sit quietly and without fidgeting. Do not talk during the performance/movie.

2. Sit up straight in your chair so the people behind you can see too.

3. Turn off your cell phone, beeper, and alarm watch.

4. Laugh when it is appropriate.

5. Do not heckle. People are not there to be entertained by you.

6. Clap when the presenter/performance/movie is finished whether or not you enjoyed it.

7. Unwrap all candy and open all snack bags before the curtain goes up.

8. Do not leave before the end of the performance/show unless it is an emergency.

9. Don’t leave your wrappers, tissues, pop cup or other garbage behind. Throw it away.

10. Inappropriate outbursts during a show are unwanted. Laugh when you are supposed to laugh and scream when you are supposed to scream. Don’t ruin the experience for other people.

love is cinta..

cinta itu sesuatu yang mengasyik kan setiap insan yang bergelar manusia..cinta itu sendiri adalah subjektif..so, it can be defined by others in many different ways...in fact, everyone deserves to love someone and to be loved by others because they are worth it...to me, cinta adalah hak setiap individu..nafsu itu sendiri adalah cinta kerna dari nafsulah kite mula tertarik dengan physical appearances..it happens to everyone so dont u try to deny it..

it belongs to everyone...in my view, selagi cinta tuh x memudaratkan diri sendiri dan orang lain, it's a gift from God..what i mean is, as long as love can mould u into a better human, can give u happiness, and bring lights and hopes into you life, u should go on with ur love..though sometimes it is forbidden...btol x??for me, cinta terlarang, cinta sejenis are love too..n we should not discriminate them in society...mereka ini telah banyak mengalami bencana n masalah disebabkan mereka ini lain daripada yang lain..we should be friends with them and try to be in their shoes..selami hati n perasaan mereka kerna x semesti nye mereka nie bermasalah..hellooo...kite nie dh semakin maju n dunia pun dh berubah...x malu kah kite untuk menilai cara hidup mereka lantas menghukum mereka!!???mereka juga punya perasaan..so guys, be grateful kerna kite masih lagi diberi kesempatan untuk menikmati cinta coz love comes in many different shapes...friendship pun love gak kan...jadi fikir-fikir kan ok...

~xoxo~

love lingo..!!!

having someone who is precious to your life is like between dream and miracle..it seems so right when they near us and we forget other things that may be crucial in lives..with them we can share anything that gives us tranquility and peace..and by telling stories, the special tie that bonded us together becomes much tighter and stronger..that's why talking is the best option in relationship..talking is like a couple's emotional workout to improve the quality of relationship..

speak out our mind helps us to maintain the equilibrium between us and partners..so, they need to set aside time for this whether before hitting the sack at night or early morning coffee in bed..decide what works for the both of you in order to improvise the relationship..plus, when we are entering the talk-zone, please please please to turn off all beeping electronic devices to minimise distractions..once the talking session is being interrupted, it is often difficult to regain the flow of a conversation..

the most important rule of talking is DON'T WHINE, ACCUSE or QUESTION during this special talk-time..instead of blasting "i hate it that you're always busy!" to your partners, say, "you know i miss you and i'd love if we could spend more time together alone."..it is much better than show your aggressiveness coz it's not the payback time when you two are all alone..so make it comfortable and play with twisted words to tainted them..always play it positively..

you can play with their emotions by stroking their egos and guide them to talk more by asking more open-ended questions..usually man is the most emotional-complicated creature in the world, so when he is giving you "yes" or "no" replies, you better rephrasing your questions..if anything about them seems odd or they are upset with something, try to peek-a-boo at their emotions first by entertaining their inside..

so where is the most recommended spot for it?hurmm...the bedroom!!!yes yes and yes!!!the most cosy place in the galaxie..hehehe..you better practise these love lingo-talk-tactics to keep your channel of communication open...

until then..

xoxo

~frasy live luxe~

men's company

this session, i just wanna share this splendid weekend with you guys in the company of men where we will learn a thing or two about the male species...

firstly, men are very sensitive creature than women but in strange ways. if they cannot fix something, they will actually take it personally because they won't show to other people that they are useless and weaker.

men are not complex. so when they say "yes" and "no", these are acceptable answers for any question. why??because men aren't big on elaboration.

guys are straight-forward persons for they are not understand hints or flowery sentences. so when you are talking or chatting with them, say what you are really meant and meant what you said.

when it itches, it will be scratched automatically. (actually you already know this one right?)

guys' number one hate? girls bitching! it's totally like Britney who is a tad too mad and Lindsay is a bitch..\

what issue do you think they talk when four or more guys get together? they talk about sports. but when four or more women get together, they talk about men and gossips. how do i know? because i got a crew of 5 chicks shooting all the men!

the ultimate female on earth for guys? definitely the super duper Jessica Alba..!!

girls listen up!! guys do kiss and tell story.. (sorry)

until then..

xoxo

-frasy live luxe-

be confident!!

to help yourself look good and feel great is via self-confidence as it is a great asset for any personality..how can i be confident?okay guys, here's some tips to get you going as a positive self-image is not built all day long but it is attainable..

first of all, nobody is perfect. so face it! if you are too push yourself when you had failed something in your life, you automatically program you mind that you can't do it at all. so do believe that you are human and bear in mind that being critical of yourself is beneficial but only if it unleashes healthy competitiveness in you. opportunity comes in every mistakes but in disguise so give yourself a pat on the back and stay on track.

who says you have to look so perfect in every single moment of your life? don't you feel that being perfectionist 24/7 is too much hard work? instead of feeling that disheartened that you don't have a perfect figure like supermodels, learn to appreciate and celebrate your own body and have a realistic yet relevant perceptions of your own appearance. you should strive for a body that's beautiful yet possible to attain.

"i'm fabulous!" counter it by saying out loud whenever you feel bad about yourself.affirmations can do wonders to lift bad feelings. so next time when you look bleak, think positive!do it often and it will snowball your self-confidence in the right direction.

let's get healthy via a healthy diet and exercise..these will ensure a svelte bod which can boost your confidence and keep you feeling top of the world. so you should thank to endorphins - the feeling good hormone in your body which releases when you get exercise. dancing is the best exercise that you can practice anytime and everywhere whenever you feel that you need some kinda break while working so hard nine to five. plus, keep a balanced diet that helps you fueled for the day's activities.

something as simple as colouring your hair or updating your wardrobe really boosts confidence. so spruce yourself by grooming helps you to look great in front of people. round up your besties and head to your favourite shopping malls or you can pamper yourself with a mani and pedi while having a great time with your friends.

improvise your body language is a very good sign to be confident. when you have a good posture you exude confidence automatically. keeping an upright profile can make you look 5 kg lighter while slouching suggests lack of confidence. so straighten your back and shoulders, suck in your turn and make that head-turning entrance.

last but not least, make a list of what you are good and what you like doing. for example, baking cookies and cakes, songwriting, or dressmaking. then aim to hone your skills or interest. being good at something always plumps up your confidence and makes you feel great about yourself..

so guys, what are you waiting for???try it when you can because confidence start here.. (*_*)