Thursday, October 16, 2008

love lingo..!!!

having someone who is precious to your life is like between dream and miracle..it seems so right when they near us and we forget other things that may be crucial in lives..with them we can share anything that gives us tranquility and peace..and by telling stories, the special tie that bonded us together becomes much tighter and stronger..that's why talking is the best option in relationship..talking is like a couple's emotional workout to improve the quality of relationship..
speak out our mind helps us to maintain the equilibrium between us and partners..so, they need to set aside time for this whether before hitting the sack at night or early morning coffee in bed..decide what works for the both of you in order to improvise the relationship..plus, when we are entering the talk-zone, please please please to turn off all beeping electronic devices to minimise distractions..once the talking session is being interrupted, it is often difficult to regain the flow of a conversation..
the most important rule of talking is DON'T WHINE, ACCUSE or QUESTION during this special talk-time..instead of blasting "i hate it that you're always busy!" to your partners, say, "you know i miss you and i'd love if we could spend more time together alone."..it is much better than show your aggressiveness coz it's not the payback time when you two are all alone..so make it comfortable and play with twisted words to tainted them..always play it positively..
you can play with their emotions by stroking their egos and guide them to talk more by asking more open-ended questions..usually man is the most emotional-complicated creature in the world, so when he is giving you "yes" or "no" replies, you better rephrasing your questions..if anything about them seems odd or they are upset with something, try to peek-a-boo at their emotions first by entertaining their inside..
so where is the most recommended spot for it?hurmm...the bedroom!!!yes yes and yes!!!the most cosy place in the galaxie..hehehe..you better practise these love lingo-talk-tactics to keep your channel of communication open...
until then..
xoxo
~frasy live luxe~

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